LGBTQ+ VOICES

Ways to support LGBTQ+ students:

1. Listen to LGBTQ youth.

As one survey respondent said, “Adults can help by being understanding…” Take the time to listen and learn from LGBTQ youth. Read HRC’s guide on supporting transgender youth or information on the experiences of bisexual youth and LGBTQ youth of color. Once you’ve done that, take the time to educate others.

2. Be a role model for kindness and inclusion.

“Don’t tolerate any kind of hateful speech,” stressed one survey participant. Speak up if you hear “That’s so gay” or other anti-LGBTQ comments from young people in your lives and be prepared for questions and put-downs on gender. 

3. Show young people that they can be authentic around you.

Almost half of the LGBTQ youth surveyed say they’ve muted their self-expression. Look for ways that you can demonstrate to the young people in your life that they can be themselves around you. Talk about how there is no “one way” to be a boy or a girl, for example, and avoid making assumptions about a young person’s sexual orientation or gender identity. If you’re not LGBTQ, come out as a supporter of LGBTQ equality.

4. Take action at the local level to create safe spaces.

Consider your community and some of the places where youth spend time -- are they safe for LGBTQ youth? How can you make a difference? For example, consider contacting your local school board and encouraging members to adopt inclusive policies. Be ready to share resources with young people who have experienced harassment or violence. If you work with youth -- as a teacher, counselor, social worker or other professional -- consider attending a conference to learn best practices in creating safe spaces for LGBTQ youth.

5. Stay informed and get involved in the fights ahead.

We face a long and difficult fight ahead to protect the historic progress we’ve made toward ensuring full LGBTQ equality. Join the fight and stay updated on HRC’s local, state and federal advocacy. LGBTQ youth are counting on you.